We became Monks.
Honestly !
Bhaaaaaavada Saaaaabba MaaaaandareeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenAfter 11 months of complete indulgence of our every whim and desire, every day a new experience, a life of complete freedom with no restrictions. A life of pure hedonism. The world was our Oyster and we had been swallowing those Oysters one after another and then went out looking for more.
So shockingly and kind of unbelievingly to us, we agreed to the decision to lock ourselves away for 10 days and live like Nuns (or monks if you like).
We lived in a Vipasanna Meditation Centre, men and women seperated, while I got own room, I don’t know why but Mik had to share a room with 2 others, who she didn’t speak to for 10 days.
In those 10 days our whole world narrowed down to the 2 acre area of the residential quarters, Dhamma hall, registration hall and the dining room and we never ventured beyond these.
We did NOT SPEAK for 10, nearly 11 days – its called Noble Silence. We made no eye contact with anyone, no body language, signals etc. Our music, books, writing materials, money were taken from us, so we wouldn’t be distracted.
Exercise apart from walking and stretching is not permitted.
Every morning we were woken by the gong at 4AM to commence our 9 HOUR day of mediation plus 1-2 hours of teachings.
No biscuits, No crisps, No smoking, No alcohol, No meat, No laughing, No singing and this was all in the aim of making us happy (- eh but they make me happy).
Me n Mik hummed n hawed the week before the course wondering if it was really for us or the right thing to do – could we be meditators? We’re not really the sort of people and discipline – I couldn’t even remember what the word meant. I remember we stayed in Jens place in Berkeley, California while she went on a 2 day meditation course and I thought why would you do that – I’d be bored outta my tree- 2 full days no way. Now I was signing up for 10.
Mmmmmm mmm bring on the salty crispiesI was first advised of this course in July in Guatemala in Central America and was told it would be good for me. So I put it to the back of my mind and decided to think about doing it in India. When I got to India I remembered it and said maybe I’ll do it at the end of the trip just before I go home – putting it off. Then our 2nd week in India we met Marijn who had just completed his 5th course and told us it was the best thing that happened in his life. We met other people who spoke about people having Shiny eyes when they complete the course and being really happy.
We decided then that right lets just go and do it and not worry about it too much, so we booked ourselves in for the next available one 5 days later.
So many times through the course I wanted to leave, I couldn’t do it, its not me. I kept saying to myself just do 1 more day and then see. Most of the teachings made complete sense, it was all about the laws of nature and living in the reality of now - our minds are always thinking of the past and of the future but very little on the now. I agreed with most of the teachings, but one or 2 things didn’t make sense to me.
Vipassana is about seeing the truth and learning about your inner self. Its not a complicated tecnique at all. Its really simple and you do all the work – its nothing at all Cult like and you're not asked to commit yourself to a religion. The options are all up to you. Its up to you to do the work – do it or don’t. The work is meditation- just focusing on yourself. Its all about learning about you and your body- very simple really.
Also one huge important fact about this course is that it is free- if you do the 10 days and feel benefitted you make a donation that suits you.
So we headed off to the address given to us which was in the busy, noisy polluted town of Dehra Dun. This seemed really strange for the centre to be in such a noisy spot, but it turned out there was a jeep arranged to collect us and take us to the Centre in a location in the countryside.
In the jeep was a sound Israeli girl who had just been filling up on ice-cream and 2 older Indian men. Enroute, the 2 Indian men stop the jeep, hop out and invite us in for a cuppa chai. So the 3 of us end up in the living room of this Indian mans sons house whos wife gives us all tea and biscuits. All really lovely. But we were getting anxious as we were now late.
Back into the jeep and we head off through a military base and into a beautiful hilly and green countryside. The jeep then went off road and began crossing over this huge dried up river bed and through a small stream to the other side. The other side we headed up a laneway and into the Centre. Then at the Centre as we were late it was a rush to register and sign the agreement that we would obey the 5 precepts -no killing, no lying, no sex, stealing, no intoxicants- we would practice Noble Silence and we would see the course through the full 10 days.
We handed over all the books, valuables etc. Me and Mik were put in the same room and I asked to move coz we couldn’t do silence if we’re together for days and anyway I could do with a holiday!! Kidding – I know her so well now it would be impossible for me not to notice how she’s doing, I know her every sigh etc. etc.
As we completed the induction cermony a storm was brewing outside and the power cut out. We started our vow of silence and were taken up this pathway to the Meditation
Hall while winds howled and thunder and lighting filled the sky.
Our white meditation hall was quite dark but was filled with the blue meditation cushions the teacher sat at the top on a meditation chair all in white, the assistant teachers facing him at the front. On one side was full of old Indian men in long white shirts and pants with a few traveller guys scattered between all looking very peacful. On the womens side was an array of colours and outfits as the Indian Saris were so bright and there were mainly foreign women in the group and 1 nun.
Then as we took our meidation poses, our teacher played this chanting tape and it with the whole set up of the centre, the storm, the power cut, the chanting I was really curious to see how the follwing 10 days would unfold.
I had thought I was going to be spending the 10 days mulling over my past life, things that went wrong in my life, any events in my life that affected me, what makes me who I am today, blah blah blah. I spent the first half of the course waiting for these to come flooding in. That didn’t happen and I thought this isn’t working and its bloody difficult to sit and meditate for 9 hours I had aches and pains.
After day 6 I learned I have a strong determination. I was free to leave at any time. Day 7 I said I’ve come this far I can’t give up all that work. And so on, I continued on. I don't think Mik found it as tough as I did tho.
But I made some realisations and discoveries that I don't think would have happened had I not taken the course. And now that I’m finished I want to do the whole thing again!!
I don’t know if I should tell you the complete inns and outs of the course as I now think everyone should do this course and see for themselves. Everyones experience is different. I just completed and know that I want to give it time and see how I will apply it to the “real world”. But I already know as much as it was so difficult I would do another one.
Lin x
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